RealBoldTruth, the talk show airs tonight at 6pm EST on Heart Ministry Radio!
Every third Friday of the month is dedicated to our Youth!! Tonight’s show is the first so grab your pre-teens and teenagers and have them listen in! WARNING: You may have to put them in a choke hold for some tough love! Lol!
The show topic is entitled “Growing up is Hard to do!”
So if you have a pre-teen or teenager who thinks they are GROWN, or if you are that teen wondering why your parents are always “Trippin”, listen up for a serious reality check, RealBoldTruth Style!
One evening last week I was sitting down watching an episode of America’s Got Talent (2016).
A young man by the name of Campbell Walker Fields captured my soul for a moment and had my undivided attention. He is African American, 14 years old and shared a painful testimony about how he was given away by his birth mother and adopted by a Caucasian gay couple who are both males.
This young man poured out his heart about how he longed to find and meet his mother. Although extremely appreciative of the love and sacrifice from his adopted fathers, he still longed to unite with the source he originated from. The two men who raised Campbell looked on and encouraged their son’s journey. I was completely moved to compassion by their sincerity and support to help their son find closure and ultimately peace. Tears filled their eyes as they clung to one another as Campbell belted out lyrics to a song he composed assuring his mother that he longs to see and has always loved her.
It was clear that Campbell has never been without love, provision and security. His dads clearly care for him like their own. He wanted for nothing less than the woman who helped bring his life forth but chose not to raise him. His life was still incomplete.
I found myself asking if this young man had all he needed, why would he still long for the woman who gave him away? God answered my question with this statement:
“I have never changed my mind on my original design for the family simply because humanity has.”
The response shook my spirit like nothing has in a very long time!
It was always the purposed intent of our Lord for a concrete family structure: The man who follows God, the woman who follows the man and when they reproduce and bear children, these new lives are molded by the original two. This design, if followed by his Word and instructions for life, is absolutely flawless! Brokenness is inevitable when man changes this design intentionally or unintentionally.
The spirit of our living God is completely grieved when:
Men abandon their families and forfeit their leadership positions as Head-of-household.
Mothers turn away from their children denying them proper nurturing mentally or physically.
Women are forced to play the role of both parents when the man decides to leave.
Men and Women become lovers of themselves and interrupt the process of natural reproduction.
And so much more….
All of this can leave children left alone, confused, misguided, lacking, and questioning their origin long into their adult years. This vicious cycle can continue into the next generation poisoning our future.
Millions of lives are shattered today because of human divination from the architectural structure of the family defined by the Lord.
No matter how much any other way is justified, His way is the spiritual fabric of our make up, and has been since the beginning of time. This is undeniable under the most intense debate!
The slightest alteration in the perfect family design is the very reason why at 43 years of age, I still feel the obvious void of not being effectively parented. It’s a wound that seems to never heal. It’s the reason why Campbell who wants for nothing still longs to have the mother he was denied of. It’s the reason why other grown and clearly successful figures like Kelly Clarkson would pen a song about the father who abandoned her entitled “Piece by Piece”. She made something of herself despite his absence but will still breakdown when reflecting on her childhood and how he left her.
No changes of law, fight for freedom, or stances for equality will ever change the original unadulterated hand of God. society can try and has advanced in efforts, but lives will continue to be shattered at the very foundation the more we place resistance on His Will for our lives.